Choose Who is Your Lover
This article is for men and women alike. You may think that love is something that is simply thrown at you, but that’s an unhealthy assumption that the break could lead to problematic scenarios heart. Here’s how to choose, and who love you not only swept through moments of lust, love or sheer stupidity are.
1 on the love that you’ve already seen but had not Reflect reflects back. Has it ever happened that you fell in love with someone? Most people do. But as you probably already now, it is not always mutual. .. And with a one-sided love affair well .. sucks. The main problem is that when you fall in love, especially if it is the first time, you feel the other person is perfect. You are truly and completely believe that you will never be able to have a partner that fits you like that person.
This leads naturally to you and obsession. She obsessed with this person, and you will probably suffer, until you forget to be able to them, and keep on with your life. The problem is, this could happen again .. as you may know, is the best type of treatment to prevent the problem from happening in the first place.
2 stop leaving love as passive. Love is not something that is simply thrown at you. You may not know, but love is a choice. You can choose to love you. But this may be like a beautiful set, you probably will not understand it yet. You have your perception of the word love: love is actually the manifestation of one’s being. That is, it depends on how much you have in something, how much you care about something together. Or someone. You see, we give you an example:
* Let’s say you see some dogs (even assuming you like dogs, it could be a cat or even a penguin for that matter). One might think it’s cute and all, but if he gets hurt, you are not that much .. and even if you will, it will not keep you long. Let’s say that you made sure that this dog, you cared about him, she thought about him, she fed him. He was then a part of you. He was the manifestation of one’s being. Well, the more you invest time and effort and thought into something or someone is, the more you’ll love it.
3 Recognize that we are referring a lot better than we are in relationship with others. We love each other more than we (Yes, that may for some people who are not very fond of strange himself, but it is only a temporary feeling, surely you about yourself more than you care about someone else) love. Well, “invest” when we do a part of ourselves to something or someone, we begin to love it, or them. And that is because we love ourselves, we feel connected to that person by the actions and thoughts we have invested in this person (or dog for that matter). And the more time we think and imagine that people, the more we take care of him. Because this person is a part of who we are, a part of you is now embedded in the person, is a part of your soul now a part of that person. That’s why you see him / her love / it.
4 Accept that love is a matter of choice. You can invest time, effort and thought into someone, what you in loving that person. Well, if you know love is a matter of choice, you can think logically, if you are obsessed with someone for a logical reason or just because you wanted to be obsessed with this person. It’s all a question of choices in life and love, as do many other things, is a matter of choice.